We had Children, and our Marriage Changed.

You met the love of your life. You had a baby, you spent 9 blissful months planning your life together, discussing which colour you should paint the nursery. You went to baby showers, children birthdays, and you sat through picnics watching your friends’ kids unbearable behaviour. On the way home, you held your hands and smiled at each other thinking you were going to be completely different parents. You were going…