Thanks so much for reading my article. I do understand your point of view and you may be 100% right. At the same time, I have embranced a thankfulness practice that helps me move through the darkest moments in life (past and present). By thanking the person or the action, I manage to "let it go" and learn from it. It works for me, but surely it doesn't have to work for everyone. Thanks for spending the time to respond to my article, not that many people do it.